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Friday, September 29, 2006
Seeing a married man
Kim, 33, from va asks:
I am married and was seeing a married man also. We have dated off and on for 3 years. We just got back together the beginning of the year. Everything was going good then all of the sudden he says we need to chill because he needs to work thing out with his family. He says we will be together again. Is that just bs or can he actually mean it? We do seem to always get back together.
VictorM's advice:
It could be bullshit but with a liar and a cheater, you never know, do you? You get what you pay for, so the saying goes.
I have no doubt you always seem to always wind up together. Just like cow shit and flies, I suppose.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
I am married and was seeing a married man also. We have dated off and on for 3 years. We just got back together the beginning of the year. Everything was going good then all of the sudden he says we need to chill because he needs to work thing out with his family. He says we will be together again. Is that just bs or can he actually mean it? We do seem to always get back together.
VictorM's advice:
It could be bullshit but with a liar and a cheater, you never know, do you? You get what you pay for, so the saying goes.
I have no doubt you always seem to always wind up together. Just like cow shit and flies, I suppose.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Ick. Both of you guys are disgusting. Let the man go back to his family and try to fix it. If you want to have an affair...DON'T GET MARRIED!
Stacy, that's a little harsh. This guy could be the love of her life. Marriage is only a legal term in my opinion, most of them end in divorce anyways.
Hi Kim,
It's tough to say what this guy really wants out of life. He may be telling you the truth or he may be giving you vague answers just to keep you around if his marriage falls through. I think you should go out and find other guys to date. If you find a better guy, you can move forward. If you date other guys and none of them compare to this guy, you can always date him later. Waiting is a waste of time in my opinion. Get out there and date other guys.
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Hi Kim,
It's tough to say what this guy really wants out of life. He may be telling you the truth or he may be giving you vague answers just to keep you around if his marriage falls through. I think you should go out and find other guys to date. If you find a better guy, you can move forward. If you date other guys and none of them compare to this guy, you can always date him later. Waiting is a waste of time in my opinion. Get out there and date other guys.
Cheers,
Napoleon Will's blog
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