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Saturday, September 30, 2006
Hugs and butterflies
nicola, 13, from scotland asks:
I like this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me. He is like one of my best friends and he likes to give me hugs and I get butterflies when he does and he says he kisses all his friends and now he asks for kisses off of me. I'm fine with it and I do kiss him but it makes me like him even more and I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel about him because what if he doesn't like me back and then he might not talk to me anymore.....please help
VictorM's advice:
Oh man... hugs and butterflies. I envy you. That stuff was fun.
I say enjoy it as things are now. Telling him you like him will not make things any better; it probably will scare him away. Boys around your age don't mature as quickly as girls do, so he's not ready for a steady thing. He's in an experimental stage, hence the kissing of other friends, and it's best if it stays that way until he's ready.
Just keep being the wonderful friend that you are -- he wouldn't want to kiss you if he didn't think so -- and enjoy the butterflies. Maybe the two of you will grow closer together, maybe you won't, but at your age changes happen quickly, so it's not like you'll have to wait too long to know.
Tip: wear a nice, soft, girly perfume. He won't know why, but he'll get addicted to getting closer to you. :)
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I like this guy and I'm not sure if he likes me. He is like one of my best friends and he likes to give me hugs and I get butterflies when he does and he says he kisses all his friends and now he asks for kisses off of me. I'm fine with it and I do kiss him but it makes me like him even more and I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel about him because what if he doesn't like me back and then he might not talk to me anymore.....please help
VictorM's advice:
Oh man... hugs and butterflies. I envy you. That stuff was fun.
I say enjoy it as things are now. Telling him you like him will not make things any better; it probably will scare him away. Boys around your age don't mature as quickly as girls do, so he's not ready for a steady thing. He's in an experimental stage, hence the kissing of other friends, and it's best if it stays that way until he's ready.
Just keep being the wonderful friend that you are -- he wouldn't want to kiss you if he didn't think so -- and enjoy the butterflies. Maybe the two of you will grow closer together, maybe you won't, but at your age changes happen quickly, so it's not like you'll have to wait too long to know.
Tip: wear a nice, soft, girly perfume. He won't know why, but he'll get addicted to getting closer to you. :)
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Hi Nicola,
Do you want this guy to be your friend or your boyfriend? If you tell this guy how you feel and he doesn't have the same feelings, it is going to be awkward around him. But if he does like you, it could be the start to a relationship. Ask yourself if it's a risk you are willing to take. Possible boyfriend or awkward situations.
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Do you want this guy to be your friend or your boyfriend? If you tell this guy how you feel and he doesn't have the same feelings, it is going to be awkward around him. But if he does like you, it could be the start to a relationship. Ask yourself if it's a risk you are willing to take. Possible boyfriend or awkward situations.
Cheers,
Napoleon Will's blog
Feel free to email with questions or comments.
I say, the next time he hugs you, pull him close and tight (use your *hips*) and whisper into his ear, "I love your hugs." Then give him a nice slow warm kiss on the cheek.
He'll get the idea.
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