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Sunday, August 27, 2006
Trick questions
Rach asks:
My boyfriend has been asking me some trick questions.. and he asked me have I ever loved anyone before and I thought he was meaning before us... I knew I shouldn't have told him but it was late and I wasn't thinking clearly so I told him about this guy once I just said the dude's name... and my boyfriend said you failed the trick question... it bothered me... I don't know what to do.. I'm not too big into that trick thing and from the sound of this voice on the phone... he sounded upset.. but he kinda like blew it off yet didn't let me forget... What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
Here's a general rule you should follow for the rest of your life: if a guy asks you trick questions, dump his ass on the spot! I don't care if he's 11 (as may be the case here) or 60. Trick questions are attributes of immature, insecure, most toxic of people. You did nothing wrong; your boyfriend is just an immature twit (I like this word lately).
What do you do? You tell him next time he asks a trick question he'll be history and if he doesn't grow up you're going to find a real guy to date. Serioulsy, don't take that crap from this guy now. Learn to assert yourself or you'll be just a play thing to guys.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
My boyfriend has been asking me some trick questions.. and he asked me have I ever loved anyone before and I thought he was meaning before us... I knew I shouldn't have told him but it was late and I wasn't thinking clearly so I told him about this guy once I just said the dude's name... and my boyfriend said you failed the trick question... it bothered me... I don't know what to do.. I'm not too big into that trick thing and from the sound of this voice on the phone... he sounded upset.. but he kinda like blew it off yet didn't let me forget... What do I do?
VictorM's advice:
Here's a general rule you should follow for the rest of your life: if a guy asks you trick questions, dump his ass on the spot! I don't care if he's 11 (as may be the case here) or 60. Trick questions are attributes of immature, insecure, most toxic of people. You did nothing wrong; your boyfriend is just an immature twit (I like this word lately).
What do you do? You tell him next time he asks a trick question he'll be history and if he doesn't grow up you're going to find a real guy to date. Serioulsy, don't take that crap from this guy now. Learn to assert yourself or you'll be just a play thing to guys.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Yes, your boyfriend's behaviour is the true meaning of an immature twit. He wants to keep you off balance as a way to control you. I'm glad his trickery bothered you.
Unless you're open to going on a hell-bent roller coaster ride to no where, then it's time to let Slimey go, and find a guy who's not bubbling over with toxic waste.
Unless you're open to going on a hell-bent roller coaster ride to no where, then it's time to let Slimey go, and find a guy who's not bubbling over with toxic waste.
I must be an immature twit then cause I do it all the time. Though I believe the only reason I do it is because my boyfriend has a hard time expressing himself and sometimes I just want to hear him said something nice... so I trick him into saying something like, "Who do you think is prettier than me?" Hoping that he says like Angelina Jolie is prettier than me, I'd be perfectly fine with that. As long as he doesn't say, "Sara Jessica Parker".
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