Wednesday, August 02, 2006
She's Known Him Longer
Kara, 13
Oregon
Asks:
Ok so this guy likes me and I like him. But my really good friend has liked him since she met him. (5 years) We played truth or dare and he got dared to kiss her she was in heaven. When it was my turn to get dared he kept saying I don't care if it has to do with me. Well I really want to kiss him but I have known him way shorter than her. She said she would never talk to me if I kissed him. She has never been this way. She really likes him. I know guys aren't always gonna be there and your friends are but help!
Lee's Thoughts:
Kara, your friend is being unreasonable. However, at this time of life, girls LOVE DRAMA, so if you attempt anything with this guy, you will lose your friend and she will go on as the scorned friend from whom you stole her one true love. It will suck for you, even though you would have done nothing wrong.
You have every right to go after this guy, but I'd leave him alone if I were you. I promise this isn't going to be the love of your life, so there's no sense in ruining the friendship.
Oregon
Asks:
Ok so this guy likes me and I like him. But my really good friend has liked him since she met him. (5 years) We played truth or dare and he got dared to kiss her she was in heaven. When it was my turn to get dared he kept saying I don't care if it has to do with me. Well I really want to kiss him but I have known him way shorter than her. She said she would never talk to me if I kissed him. She has never been this way. She really likes him. I know guys aren't always gonna be there and your friends are but help!
Lee's Thoughts:
Kara, your friend is being unreasonable. However, at this time of life, girls LOVE DRAMA, so if you attempt anything with this guy, you will lose your friend and she will go on as the scorned friend from whom you stole her one true love. It will suck for you, even though you would have done nothing wrong.
You have every right to go after this guy, but I'd leave him alone if I were you. I promise this isn't going to be the love of your life, so there's no sense in ruining the friendship.
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I say in this instance respect the feelings of your friend. Seriously, do you REALLY have to have this guy when there's thousands of others? No, you don't...and she knows this to.
That's why she's upset, because she's actually questioning your motives and integrity.
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That's why she's upset, because she's actually questioning your motives and integrity.
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