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Monday, August 07, 2006

 

Lee's Really Hard Question of the Day

Katie, 17
California
Asks:

Okay....so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now but he's cheated on me 3 times already and this last time was with my " best friend. "

I love him to death but I just can't trust him anymore. I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I just don't know if I can do it. My WHOLE family hates him and my parents won't let me see him so to see him I have to sneak around and everything ( not fun )...

Do I stay with my boyfriend or do I end it?

Lee's Thoughts:

You should definitely definitely stay with him.

Marry him (with your "best friend" as your maid of honor of course) and have ten babies with him, IF you are completely aware of the fact that he will be having hookers on the side, will be an absent father, uninterested lover, and horrible partner. This marriage will be without trust and you'll be a struggling single parent who will have to support not only herself and her kids, but a deadbeat slacker husband as well.

Your parents don't know what they're talking about. You need to run away and elope with this guy immediately. He is perfectly charming.

(P.S. Be sure to look up the word "sarcasm" on www.dictionary.com)

Comments:
...lol..

Omg, I don't know wether to laugh or cry Katie. This guy isn't your boyfriend...he's everyone else's.

I feel sad that you're not able to come to your own conclusions...and worse, that you don't even have the teeniest bit of self-respect.
 
There's not much more I can add, but I just felt I had to say SOMETHING.

Are you kidding?!?! You LOVE him??? Why on earth would you love someone who has cheated on you THREE times?!?!

YOU deserve better!!!!!! Treat yourself with respect and DO NOT let this guy in your life!
 
You're an idiot..




That's all I have to add.
 
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