Thursday, August 31, 2006
Hooking up every now and then
Kara, 20, from australia asks:
I have been friends with a guy for a year, for about a month now we have been hooking up every now and then (just kissing) how long do you think I should wait until we have sex? I don't want to wreck things because I really like him and want more out of this. Would a guy be less interested in a relationship and think a girl is easy if she initiates the sex?
VictorM's advice:
You hook up every now and do some kissing? Kara, in his mind you are already easy, never mind sex. Fair or not, that's how most guys think. Right now you're just a friend with benefits, and that's a lousy seed for a serious relationship.
If you want a relationship, aim for that first. Let the kissing and sex come in due time.
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I have been friends with a guy for a year, for about a month now we have been hooking up every now and then (just kissing) how long do you think I should wait until we have sex? I don't want to wreck things because I really like him and want more out of this. Would a guy be less interested in a relationship and think a girl is easy if she initiates the sex?
VictorM's advice:
You hook up every now and do some kissing? Kara, in his mind you are already easy, never mind sex. Fair or not, that's how most guys think. Right now you're just a friend with benefits, and that's a lousy seed for a serious relationship.
If you want a relationship, aim for that first. Let the kissing and sex come in due time.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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If you want to get serious, get serious. Start spending more (consistent) time together. Go out on actual dates.
You'll be able to tell if he actually likes you, or is just using you for fun.
Definitely don't put out until you feel really safe with him.
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You'll be able to tell if he actually likes you, or is just using you for fun.
Definitely don't put out until you feel really safe with him.
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