Tuesday, August 01, 2006
Does She Like Me?
Hector, 42
Puerto Rico
Asks:
Hello!
There is this girl at work that is not a hottie, but definitely looks beautiful and nice to me. Lately, she has been a bit closer to me, like engaging me in conversation, more than once telling me "you look real nice today" or saying "lets go, Hector" "Where do we go, Hector?" A month ago, we got together at a restaurant after work. Since I was doing annual training at that time, I came up from the training site to attend. She asked if I was returning to the base and, when I commented that a customer and her daughter both called me at my mobile, she asked why did they have to call me.
A week later we ran into each other at the breakroom, and she asked if I had gone back to the base on the night of the get together, and if I got there fast. I was surprised, but managed to answer that yes, I went back to base. Then she tells me that she was wondering because she did not see me at all on the road!Some days later, it turned out we had to work together for a while, and I noticed that she had her hair done very nicely and, unconsciously,I reached out and touched her hair and said "Its very nice. I like it" and she blushed and giggled, and then asks "Do you like it?" "Really?"
Once she told me that she has never married, and I have heard that she's never been with a man. But I do not care a whit about that. I am 42, and she's 41. I have experience, and even had once a girlfriend that was virgin at 38 when I was 30. I really would like to ask her out, but my feelings betray me. Could it be that she'd like to get to know me better? That she actually likes me? I know you cannot read minds, but any help would be really appreciated.
Lee's Thoughts:
Hector, you are completely over-thinking this. YES SHE LIKES YOU. You need to trust your instincts a bit more. You sound like a very sweet and sensitive guy. Keep it up! Ask her out! HAVE FUN!!
Puerto Rico
Asks:
Hello!
There is this girl at work that is not a hottie, but definitely looks beautiful and nice to me. Lately, she has been a bit closer to me, like engaging me in conversation, more than once telling me "you look real nice today" or saying "lets go, Hector" "Where do we go, Hector?" A month ago, we got together at a restaurant after work. Since I was doing annual training at that time, I came up from the training site to attend. She asked if I was returning to the base and, when I commented that a customer and her daughter both called me at my mobile, she asked why did they have to call me.
A week later we ran into each other at the breakroom, and she asked if I had gone back to the base on the night of the get together, and if I got there fast. I was surprised, but managed to answer that yes, I went back to base. Then she tells me that she was wondering because she did not see me at all on the road!Some days later, it turned out we had to work together for a while, and I noticed that she had her hair done very nicely and, unconsciously,I reached out and touched her hair and said "Its very nice. I like it" and she blushed and giggled, and then asks "Do you like it?" "Really?"
Once she told me that she has never married, and I have heard that she's never been with a man. But I do not care a whit about that. I am 42, and she's 41. I have experience, and even had once a girlfriend that was virgin at 38 when I was 30. I really would like to ask her out, but my feelings betray me. Could it be that she'd like to get to know me better? That she actually likes me? I know you cannot read minds, but any help would be really appreciated.
Lee's Thoughts:
Hector, you are completely over-thinking this. YES SHE LIKES YOU. You need to trust your instincts a bit more. You sound like a very sweet and sensitive guy. Keep it up! Ask her out! HAVE FUN!!
