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Sunday, July 30, 2006
He's a great dad
Britney, 29, from Canada asks:
I am in a long distance relationship with a man who has two kids. It is difficult for us to get together and sometimes I feel I'm putting more effort into the relationship than he is. He is a great dad and always puts his kids first which I think is great but I'm wondering how I fit into the picture?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know where you fit in, but he has his priorities right and a man like that is worth waiting for. Unless the kids' mom is still very much in the picture.
But have you asked him that question? I have a sneaky suspicion he's better qualified than me to answer you. Once he gives you an answer, maybe I can go over it and tell you what he really means.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
I am in a long distance relationship with a man who has two kids. It is difficult for us to get together and sometimes I feel I'm putting more effort into the relationship than he is. He is a great dad and always puts his kids first which I think is great but I'm wondering how I fit into the picture?
VictorM's advice:
I don't know where you fit in, but he has his priorities right and a man like that is worth waiting for. Unless the kids' mom is still very much in the picture.
But have you asked him that question? I have a sneaky suspicion he's better qualified than me to answer you. Once he gives you an answer, maybe I can go over it and tell you what he really means.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Hi Britney,
Good parents dedicate the majority of their free time to their children. You are in a tough situation as you want to spend more time with this guy and he doesn't have the time. If you want a serious relationship with this guy, ask yourself if you are willing to take a secondary role in his life. If you want a mutual time commitment on both sides, you know what to do.
Cheers,
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Good parents dedicate the majority of their free time to their children. You are in a tough situation as you want to spend more time with this guy and he doesn't have the time. If you want a serious relationship with this guy, ask yourself if you are willing to take a secondary role in his life. If you want a mutual time commitment on both sides, you know what to do.
Cheers,
Napoleon Will's blog
Email.
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