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Saturday, July 29, 2006
Breathing heavy
jennifer, 22, from winnipeg asks:
I have this guy friend that has told me before that he liked me but already has a girlfriend. Well the other night I asked him if he wanted to go for a walk. Well we went to his place and nothing really happened because I wouldn't let it but he was breathing heavy and I know he wanted more. I asked him what I am supposed to think and all he said was "sorry, bad night". What do you think that means?
VictorM's advice:
It means he got turned on by you, then realized he should not have come on to you. The "bad night" just meant he lacked the willpower he knows he should have had (if nothing else so he doesn't come across as scum to you).
But word of advice (and pardon my language): quit being a cockteaser! Sure, it's his responsibility to be faithful to his girlfriend but that doesn't excuse you from doing the right thing. Going to his place was hardly an innocent move on your part.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
I have this guy friend that has told me before that he liked me but already has a girlfriend. Well the other night I asked him if he wanted to go for a walk. Well we went to his place and nothing really happened because I wouldn't let it but he was breathing heavy and I know he wanted more. I asked him what I am supposed to think and all he said was "sorry, bad night". What do you think that means?
VictorM's advice:
It means he got turned on by you, then realized he should not have come on to you. The "bad night" just meant he lacked the willpower he knows he should have had (if nothing else so he doesn't come across as scum to you).
But word of advice (and pardon my language): quit being a cockteaser! Sure, it's his responsibility to be faithful to his girlfriend but that doesn't excuse you from doing the right thing. Going to his place was hardly an innocent move on your part.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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He told you: 1) He liked you. 2)He had a girlfriend.
Translation:" I'm attached but I'm open to a little somethin on the side...are you game?"
And you were. You asked him to go for a walk...and THEN went to his place. Do tell, what got him "breathing heavy"?
You thought you were being clever with your innocent act. We know better. And so should you.
Also, he is clearly open to cheating..which is a sign of his lousy sense of integrity and yet you pursued him anyways.
And stop asking air head questions like "I asked him what I'm supposed to think". Use your own brain.
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Translation:" I'm attached but I'm open to a little somethin on the side...are you game?"
And you were. You asked him to go for a walk...and THEN went to his place. Do tell, what got him "breathing heavy"?
You thought you were being clever with your innocent act. We know better. And so should you.
Also, he is clearly open to cheating..which is a sign of his lousy sense of integrity and yet you pursued him anyways.
And stop asking air head questions like "I asked him what I'm supposed to think". Use your own brain.
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