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Friday, June 30, 2006
We have good sex but
Jo, 22, from Idaho asks:
My husband and I have been together for three years, and we have a good sex but... Only every once and awhile and only in one direction can I have an orgasm, and they are great, but I would like to know how to get him as excited or make noises or something knowing that he is felling good? It is also hard for me to have an orgasm, and like I said I have to be in the same direction every time. Most of the time I just get to where it is starting to fell good and he comes and it is not enough for me, basically I am left hanging and he is satisfied. I want more!!! How do I get him to be more excited and have it last longer for him?
VictorM's advice:
OK, this is very simple: if he's hard, he's excited. Lots of guys don't make noises. No "Oh Gods", no "Yessssssss", no "Come on big boy bang me like a Brazilian drum during carnival" (oh well, that one is not so common) but anyway, don't worry about him making noises.
As for the rest, in terms of the positions and him ejaculating too soon, you really just have to talk to him and let him know these things. If you two are not mature enough to discuss sex and work to please the other, I'm not aware of any magic potion that will solve the problems. Talk to each other, before, during, and after sex. Discuss what you love to do, what turns you on, what turns you off, and together go on adventures exploring each others erogenous zones. And you don't need a map; getting lost and finding new ways is the most fun.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
My husband and I have been together for three years, and we have a good sex but... Only every once and awhile and only in one direction can I have an orgasm, and they are great, but I would like to know how to get him as excited or make noises or something knowing that he is felling good? It is also hard for me to have an orgasm, and like I said I have to be in the same direction every time. Most of the time I just get to where it is starting to fell good and he comes and it is not enough for me, basically I am left hanging and he is satisfied. I want more!!! How do I get him to be more excited and have it last longer for him?
VictorM's advice:
OK, this is very simple: if he's hard, he's excited. Lots of guys don't make noises. No "Oh Gods", no "Yessssssss", no "Come on big boy bang me like a Brazilian drum during carnival" (oh well, that one is not so common) but anyway, don't worry about him making noises.
As for the rest, in terms of the positions and him ejaculating too soon, you really just have to talk to him and let him know these things. If you two are not mature enough to discuss sex and work to please the other, I'm not aware of any magic potion that will solve the problems. Talk to each other, before, during, and after sex. Discuss what you love to do, what turns you on, what turns you off, and together go on adventures exploring each others erogenous zones. And you don't need a map; getting lost and finding new ways is the most fun.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Hi Jo,
There are a lot of books on how to increase sexual stamina for guys. Reading some of this material will increase his ability to satisfy you. It's all up to him though.
Tell him to learn the art of cunilyngus(i prob mispelled that really bad).
Cheers,
marriagematerial.blogspot.com
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There are a lot of books on how to increase sexual stamina for guys. Reading some of this material will increase his ability to satisfy you. It's all up to him though.
Tell him to learn the art of cunilyngus(i prob mispelled that really bad).
Cheers,
marriagematerial.blogspot.com
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