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Thursday, June 29, 2006
Not ready yet
Miranda, 23, from Canada asks:
So this guy I met.. we dated a few times then he said that he wasn't ready. Recently he asked me out again. We've now gone on a few dates and tonight he tells me the same thing. "I think I need you as a friend right now more then a girlfriend. But who knows what the future holds." Why does he keep doing this? And is there a good way to make it stop? If he likes me why doesn't he just be with me instead of playing games? I don't get it. HELP!!
VictorM's advice:
What games is he playing exactly? I don't see them. He likes going out on dates with you and likes your friendship. And of course, no one knows what the future holds. So what's the mystery?
You just want him to ask you to be his girlfriend, but face it, he doesn't think you're "it", hence no such question.
Yes, there is a way to make it stop: either stop going out with the guy or accept that he thinks of you as friendly material only. Case solved!
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
So this guy I met.. we dated a few times then he said that he wasn't ready. Recently he asked me out again. We've now gone on a few dates and tonight he tells me the same thing. "I think I need you as a friend right now more then a girlfriend. But who knows what the future holds." Why does he keep doing this? And is there a good way to make it stop? If he likes me why doesn't he just be with me instead of playing games? I don't get it. HELP!!
VictorM's advice:
What games is he playing exactly? I don't see them. He likes going out on dates with you and likes your friendship. And of course, no one knows what the future holds. So what's the mystery?
You just want him to ask you to be his girlfriend, but face it, he doesn't think you're "it", hence no such question.
Yes, there is a way to make it stop: either stop going out with the guy or accept that he thinks of you as friendly material only. Case solved!
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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I'd say you are probably marriage material and he doesn't want to ruin a good thing. He might be in the stage of his life where he just wants to have sex without commitment. He might not want to bring you into that category.
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