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Thursday, June 29, 2006
Moving to Reno
janet thompson, 39, from redding, ca asks:
I am dating a very nice guy my age, no children has been in one serious relationship. We see each other about once a week. We go to dinner, laugh a lot and hang out for hours at one of our houses. He is moving to Reno for business opportunity, that is only 3 hours from here. We like each other and both agreed to keep it lite for now. My problem is that I am falling for him slowly. He seems to be into me but because of the move is holding back. I listen to everything he says, he is funny, we have a lot in common. How do I get this guy to fall for me so that maybe I can join him in Reno someday?
VictorM's advice:
"I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die". Sorry, but I can't hear of Reno without those lyrics coming to mind. Anyway, I've been to Reno. Are you sure you want to live there? :)
What makes you think he hasn't fallen for you? It's possible he has. And if he has not, no gimmicks are going to chance that. You laugh, you like each other, you spend time together. Sounds like a good thing. Just be as you are.
You can keep visiting each other and the distance will make both of you reach some conclusions about your relationship. You may miss each other and want to be close to each other, or one of you may find life is fine without the other.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
I am dating a very nice guy my age, no children has been in one serious relationship. We see each other about once a week. We go to dinner, laugh a lot and hang out for hours at one of our houses. He is moving to Reno for business opportunity, that is only 3 hours from here. We like each other and both agreed to keep it lite for now. My problem is that I am falling for him slowly. He seems to be into me but because of the move is holding back. I listen to everything he says, he is funny, we have a lot in common. How do I get this guy to fall for me so that maybe I can join him in Reno someday?
VictorM's advice:
"I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die". Sorry, but I can't hear of Reno without those lyrics coming to mind. Anyway, I've been to Reno. Are you sure you want to live there? :)
What makes you think he hasn't fallen for you? It's possible he has. And if he has not, no gimmicks are going to chance that. You laugh, you like each other, you spend time together. Sounds like a good thing. Just be as you are.
You can keep visiting each other and the distance will make both of you reach some conclusions about your relationship. You may miss each other and want to be close to each other, or one of you may find life is fine without the other.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Hi Janet,
I don't think you should actively try to make him like you. If he is the one then the relationship will develop naturally. I think you should still just be yourself and if he likes you, great. If not, next. What were you thinking of doing to make him stay? Cook and clean for him? In that case, please email and I'll move you out to Canada. jk
Cheers,
marriagematerial.blogspot.com
I don't think you should actively try to make him like you. If he is the one then the relationship will develop naturally. I think you should still just be yourself and if he likes you, great. If not, next. What were you thinking of doing to make him stay? Cook and clean for him? In that case, please email and I'll move you out to Canada. jk
Cheers,
marriagematerial.blogspot.com
You can't "get" a guy to fall for you. If things are going well, just be cool. Three hours away is not too much for visits and weekends and such. Learn the lost art of the postal service letter. Oh so romantic.
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