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Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Staring at the bedroom window
Emmy Jones, 27, from Florida asks:
A guy who lives a few doors away keeps driving past my house in the morning and staring up to my bedroom window. He has no reason to as the main road is in the other direction. We have spoken a few times and he has asked me lots of questions about myself. Whenever I see him about he just seems to keep looking at me. Have you any idea why and what he thinks of me?
VictorM's answer:
My guess is that he finds you attractive but he also sounds eerily weird. His behavior seems more stalking-like than healthy admiration.
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A guy who lives a few doors away keeps driving past my house in the morning and staring up to my bedroom window. He has no reason to as the main road is in the other direction. We have spoken a few times and he has asked me lots of questions about myself. Whenever I see him about he just seems to keep looking at me. Have you any idea why and what he thinks of me?
VictorM's answer:
My guess is that he finds you attractive but he also sounds eerily weird. His behavior seems more stalking-like than healthy admiration.
Tags: advice, dating, relationship, question, answer, boyfriend, girlfriend
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Yeah, I gotta go with he sounds like a stalker? Have the phone ready to call the police for a restraining order. And stop talking to him!
But he seems like a really nice guy and doesn't come across as the stalker type!
It's so difficult, I need to know if he's genuinely interested!
It's so difficult, I need to know if he's genuinely interested!
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: 6:59 PM
: 6:59 PM
For me it was the "staring up to my bedroom" and "keep looking at me" lines that made it sound stalkish.
If he's not shy enough to ask personal questions, I would think he's not shy to ask you out, if that's what he's after.
You say he seems like a nice guy, but what do you know about him?
If he's not shy enough to ask personal questions, I would think he's not shy to ask you out, if that's what he's after.
You say he seems like a nice guy, but what do you know about him?
Just general stuff, where he works etc. We get on really well but the staring/driving past thing is freaking me out! Its not like its once in a while, its every morning!!!
I'm usually ok at sussing people out but haven't got a clue with this one which is why I'm so frustrated.
He just seems to want to find out loads about me and when he was working on stop/go boards at the roadworks a while back he stopped my car just to speak and ask where I work!
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I'm usually ok at sussing people out but haven't got a clue with this one which is why I'm so frustrated.
He just seems to want to find out loads about me and when he was working on stop/go boards at the roadworks a while back he stopped my car just to speak and ask where I work!
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