Thursday, May 18, 2006
He talks about other girls
Shelly, 19, from Indiana asks:
If you spend most of your time with a guy, and he talks about other girls with you a lot, and hits on other girls in front of you, could that mean that he's entirely not interested in you and trying to give you a hint? (Even if he still calls you to hang out and talk and stuff).
VictorM's answer:
Yes, it could mean that he thinks of you as just a friend, as just "one of the guys". But... in guy logic, it could also mean he likes you a lot. I know, seems like weird logic, but guys think that by doing what he's doing in front of you he can see if you get jealous and give him hints that you like him.
So, if you like the guy "like that", just tell him to stop talking about other girls in front of you because it makes you jealous. Then wink and smile. Unless he's an idiot, he got his sign. If, however, you just like him as a friend, let it go. Whatever his reasons for doing what he's doing that's his problem.
If you spend most of your time with a guy, and he talks about other girls with you a lot, and hits on other girls in front of you, could that mean that he's entirely not interested in you and trying to give you a hint? (Even if he still calls you to hang out and talk and stuff).
VictorM's answer:
Yes, it could mean that he thinks of you as just a friend, as just "one of the guys". But... in guy logic, it could also mean he likes you a lot. I know, seems like weird logic, but guys think that by doing what he's doing in front of you he can see if you get jealous and give him hints that you like him.
So, if you like the guy "like that", just tell him to stop talking about other girls in front of you because it makes you jealous. Then wink and smile. Unless he's an idiot, he got his sign. If, however, you just like him as a friend, let it go. Whatever his reasons for doing what he's doing that's his problem.
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