Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Ex Says I'm a Slut
Stephanie, 17
my house (PEOPLE!! The "from" means 'What state are you from?')
Asks:
I like this boy and he likes me and his ex-girlfriend is started saying that I am a slut and all kinds of other stuff! What should I do?
Lee's Thoughts:
If you aren't a slut, then she's a gossip and a liar. You shouldn't expend any energy worrying about anything a gossip and a liar says. If she says this to your face, tell her simply that she is a liar and walk away. I have a good guess she is probably saying this to other people who are *grape-vining* it back to you. If these people are really your friends, they will do the same. Your true friends will see her for what she is and if they are smart, will also not give her the time of day.
The key to silencing an annoying bitch like this is to ignore it and not feed her fire of jealousy. It may be tough, but you will come out looking like the classy babe you are and everyone will want to be near you and away from her.
Another tactic would be to have the boy talk to her and shut her up. Let's see if he can handle being a big strong man and putting this psycho in her place.
my house (PEOPLE!! The "from" means 'What state are you from?')
Asks:
I like this boy and he likes me and his ex-girlfriend is started saying that I am a slut and all kinds of other stuff! What should I do?
Lee's Thoughts:
If you aren't a slut, then she's a gossip and a liar. You shouldn't expend any energy worrying about anything a gossip and a liar says. If she says this to your face, tell her simply that she is a liar and walk away. I have a good guess she is probably saying this to other people who are *grape-vining* it back to you. If these people are really your friends, they will do the same. Your true friends will see her for what she is and if they are smart, will also not give her the time of day.
The key to silencing an annoying bitch like this is to ignore it and not feed her fire of jealousy. It may be tough, but you will come out looking like the classy babe you are and everyone will want to be near you and away from her.
Another tactic would be to have the boy talk to her and shut her up. Let's see if he can handle being a big strong man and putting this psycho in her place.
