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Thursday, April 27, 2006
Sex too soon
Samantha, 21, from Philadelphia asks:
The guy I'm hooking up with for about a month broke up with his long-term girlfriend about 3 months ago. We've been hooking up for about a month, but we've established that it's more than hooking up. We're exclusive, but we're not boyfriend/girlfriend. Last night he told me that he thinks that we had sex too soon (we had sex for the first time last week) because he thought that it would take the relationship to the next level of commitment that he's not ready for. I hadn't been thinking that, but we talked for a while, and then ended up having sex anyway. What does that mean?
VictorM's answer:
OK, let me get this straight. You had sex with him after about three weeks and you're not even boyfriend/girlfriend. But you're exclusive. What the heck does that mean, you're exclusive? Let me take a guess: you screw each other but not others. Right? So, to put it plainly, you're his fuck buddy.
Well, it's a safe bet that most guys do not want to get serious with fuck buddies; they serve only one purpose.
So, what this all means is he's getting ready to find a serious girlfriend, and you're not it.
The guy I'm hooking up with for about a month broke up with his long-term girlfriend about 3 months ago. We've been hooking up for about a month, but we've established that it's more than hooking up. We're exclusive, but we're not boyfriend/girlfriend. Last night he told me that he thinks that we had sex too soon (we had sex for the first time last week) because he thought that it would take the relationship to the next level of commitment that he's not ready for. I hadn't been thinking that, but we talked for a while, and then ended up having sex anyway. What does that mean?
VictorM's answer:
OK, let me get this straight. You had sex with him after about three weeks and you're not even boyfriend/girlfriend. But you're exclusive. What the heck does that mean, you're exclusive? Let me take a guess: you screw each other but not others. Right? So, to put it plainly, you're his fuck buddy.
Well, it's a safe bet that most guys do not want to get serious with fuck buddies; they serve only one purpose.
So, what this all means is he's getting ready to find a serious girlfriend, and you're not it.
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