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Friday, April 28, 2006
I would like to know him better
Sara, 19, from England asks:
There's this cute guy that is a friend of one of my friends. I have only met him once or twice and never really spoken to him. However, I would like to get to know him better. How do I do this without making it obvious, and without seeming desperate? I don't really want my friend to know that I am overly interested either because I would just rather see where it goes. What do you suggest?
VictorM's advice:
Find out something about him that he's passionate about or knows a lot about, and ask him questions about that subject. Guys love to show off and this way you'll get to know him a little better under cover of wanting to learn more about a subject. In the process, you'll either connect with him or you won't.
Besides, if you show interest in something he loves/knows a lot about, your odds of him wanting to spend time with you increase dramatically.
There's this cute guy that is a friend of one of my friends. I have only met him once or twice and never really spoken to him. However, I would like to get to know him better. How do I do this without making it obvious, and without seeming desperate? I don't really want my friend to know that I am overly interested either because I would just rather see where it goes. What do you suggest?
VictorM's advice:
Find out something about him that he's passionate about or knows a lot about, and ask him questions about that subject. Guys love to show off and this way you'll get to know him a little better under cover of wanting to learn more about a subject. In the process, you'll either connect with him or you won't.
Besides, if you show interest in something he loves/knows a lot about, your odds of him wanting to spend time with you increase dramatically.
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