Jen,16
Kansas
Asks:

My boyfriend used to fight a lot, then it kinda stopped but 2 days ago we got in this big fight. I haven't seen him in 3 days. He gets mad over stupid stuff. I can do something wrong and not even realize it. I care about him soo much though and I don't want to lose him. Well last night I asked him to come hang out and he was like, "Well, I'm at my friends house and I'm going to go home soon." Well an hour later I call my friend Lauren who was over there too and she tells me that he's still over there. So I was just gonna go over there to talk to her and just say hi to him since its been forever. Well I warned him because I thought it'd be weird if I just showed up and he was like "Well I'll be gone." So I was like screw it, I won't go over there. Then, I find out I could have gone over there and he would have been there because even an HOUR after he told me he was gonna leave soon, he was still there! I'm just really stressed out and don't know what his problem is!

Lee's Thoughts:

He's a punk. He doesn't want to hang out with you. He's blowing you off. Get a clue.

You're torturing yourself over this guy who doesn't give a crap about you.

Dump him and start concentrating on your friendships. Did we completely forget about Lauren?