Wednesday, March 08, 2006
What Can We Talk About?
David, 15
Texas
Asks:
I have a girl friend and have NO idea what to talk to her about. She says I'm quiet sometimes. What can I talk to her about?
Lee's Thoughts:
The answer is, ask questions, ask questions, ask questions....
Most girls LOVE to talk. Once you get them talking, you can just sit back and be your quiet self. Ask her about things she's interested in. Ask her about her family. Ask her opinion about anything.
Bring up something on the news or something you learned in class. Go see a movie and then discuss that afterwards. Basically share your insides and see if she responds.
When all else fails, maybe its time to consider that you don't really LIKE talking to her. Relationships shouldn't be hard work. You should feel the resonance between you and this girl. If you don't feel comfortable around her, maybe its time to look elsewhere.
Texas
Asks:
I have a girl friend and have NO idea what to talk to her about. She says I'm quiet sometimes. What can I talk to her about?
Lee's Thoughts:
The answer is, ask questions, ask questions, ask questions....
Most girls LOVE to talk. Once you get them talking, you can just sit back and be your quiet self. Ask her about things she's interested in. Ask her about her family. Ask her opinion about anything.
Bring up something on the news or something you learned in class. Go see a movie and then discuss that afterwards. Basically share your insides and see if she responds.
When all else fails, maybe its time to consider that you don't really LIKE talking to her. Relationships shouldn't be hard work. You should feel the resonance between you and this girl. If you don't feel comfortable around her, maybe its time to look elsewhere.
