Friday, March 03, 2006
This Woman at Work...
Richard, 49
Australia
Asks:
I work with a women who I believe is happily married. We are good friends at work only but she seems to smile all the time at me. She likes to talk to me a lot and always tries to involve me in conversations when she's talking to others. She has given small gifts from time to time, but seems to want nobody at work to know. Does this women really like me more than a friend? She has also told me bits of information that she wants kept secret, so I guess she trusts me.
Lee's Thoughts:
Richard....Do you really want to be "the other man" ? This is really not worth it. Some women are simply more relaxed and friendly with the opposite sex when they are in a committed relationship. It's much easier to talk to a guy when you know it will go nowhere. So maybe that is all there is.
Who cares if she likes you as more than a friend? Don't be the shmuck that breaks up a marriage. Be friendly with her, but keep it at that. Just appreciate her friendship, but look elsewhere for romance. It will be MUCH easier for you in the long run.
Australia
Asks:
I work with a women who I believe is happily married. We are good friends at work only but she seems to smile all the time at me. She likes to talk to me a lot and always tries to involve me in conversations when she's talking to others. She has given small gifts from time to time, but seems to want nobody at work to know. Does this women really like me more than a friend? She has also told me bits of information that she wants kept secret, so I guess she trusts me.
Lee's Thoughts:
Richard....Do you really want to be "the other man" ? This is really not worth it. Some women are simply more relaxed and friendly with the opposite sex when they are in a committed relationship. It's much easier to talk to a guy when you know it will go nowhere. So maybe that is all there is.
Who cares if she likes you as more than a friend? Don't be the shmuck that breaks up a marriage. Be friendly with her, but keep it at that. Just appreciate her friendship, but look elsewhere for romance. It will be MUCH easier for you in the long run.
