Monday, March 13, 2006
Should She Uninvite the Crush?
Rachelle, 13
California
Asks:
Hi. I asked my crush to my birthday party and I asked him to go out with me last week and he said NO. Do you think I should uninvite him or just play it cool when he comes ????
Lee's Thoughts:
Definitely do NOT uninvite him. That would be the action of an overly dramatic little girl instead of a secure and cool woman. Just because he said no to going out, doesn't mean he isn't a good guy. We have no idea if he will come to the party, but you need to act like the party (and life) will be fabulous either way.
Basically, do not create drama out of this. Be cool, but not icy, if you know what I mean. Make sure he (along with everyone) feels welcome at your party, and just have a good time yourself! You never know, maybe he'll end up asking YOU out in a couple weeks!!
California
Asks:
Hi. I asked my crush to my birthday party and I asked him to go out with me last week and he said NO. Do you think I should uninvite him or just play it cool when he comes ????
Lee's Thoughts:
Definitely do NOT uninvite him. That would be the action of an overly dramatic little girl instead of a secure and cool woman. Just because he said no to going out, doesn't mean he isn't a good guy. We have no idea if he will come to the party, but you need to act like the party (and life) will be fabulous either way.
Basically, do not create drama out of this. Be cool, but not icy, if you know what I mean. Make sure he (along with everyone) feels welcome at your party, and just have a good time yourself! You never know, maybe he'll end up asking YOU out in a couple weeks!!
