Everyone has an opinion about cybersex, and it's usually, at least in public, a negative one. Enter Regina Lynn from Wired.com, with a different take. The following are some comments from her article about webcam cybersex and a conversation with Kirk, a guy who monitors one of these chat rooms:

It's true that cybersex is not for everybody, and it can be emotionally dangerous... But it still irks me that it's such a shock when I explain that having sex online does not mean it's your last resort. It could just mean you'd rather engage and relate than zombie-out in front of the television... Cybersex is a woman's world, didn't you know? A man who not only respects that but enjoys it is a man who will not lack for online sexual partners... Not everyone uses a webcam during chat, while others -- especially couples -- connect their home video cameras to their computers and provide the highest quality video... "It's really nice when the couples are on cam together," says Kirk. "When they start playing, when you see actual sex, that's when it's the best. Much better than porno movies because it's real people."... Kirk can't believe how many men -- still -- expect instant gratification. "They say 'hey I like your cam, you wanna go private?' and it just doesn't work that way," he says. "It's the equivalent of walking up to a stranger in a bar and saying 'hey, wanna fuck'? I've never found that to work."

I was surprised by this line: "Cybersex is a woman's world". It is? That's news to me.