Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Does He Like Me?
Tabatha, 15
Hamilton
Asks:
This boy I've liked for about a year now was nice to me last year and stuff kinda happened between us, not sex, but not only kissing either. About a week after we did stuff he moved back with his dad and I haven't talked to him since. Now he just arrived back here and he's being really rude to me and won't really talk to me. I've liked him for so long and he doesn't know that. Should I tell him? Does he like me too?
Lee's Thoughts:
It is obvious that he does not like you and honestly, you don't truly like him. You like the way it felt when you were "not only kissing", but the romantic feelings you say you have are completely created in your head with no basis in reality. It is very easy to make him the perfect guy when you are never around him and never talk to him.
He's being rude to you. I would hope that would crash this fantasy you have of him so that you can move on to a boy who is actually nice and who actually will treat you well.
Hamilton
Asks:
This boy I've liked for about a year now was nice to me last year and stuff kinda happened between us, not sex, but not only kissing either. About a week after we did stuff he moved back with his dad and I haven't talked to him since. Now he just arrived back here and he's being really rude to me and won't really talk to me. I've liked him for so long and he doesn't know that. Should I tell him? Does he like me too?
Lee's Thoughts:
It is obvious that he does not like you and honestly, you don't truly like him. You like the way it felt when you were "not only kissing", but the romantic feelings you say you have are completely created in your head with no basis in reality. It is very easy to make him the perfect guy when you are never around him and never talk to him.
He's being rude to you. I would hope that would crash this fantasy you have of him so that you can move on to a boy who is actually nice and who actually will treat you well.
