Wednesday, March 08, 2006
A Columbian Guy
Samantha, 25
USA
Asks:
I been thinking about getting involved with this guy, he's Columbian, I'm Caucasian. Is there anything you can tell me about the Columbian male disposition towards women, bad or good traits I should be aware of or look for?
Lee's Thoughts:
I have no experience with Columbian guys, but why not just spend more time with him and you can find out for yourself? Ask him about his mother or his sisters. That may give you a clue as to his "disposition towards women". You need to get to know this guy just as you would a Caucasian guy. There are princes and jerks out there and you never know which one you have until you dig a little deeper.
Just talk to him about things that are important to you and see how he responds.
Maybe some readers will be able to post their "Columbian Guy" experiences....anyone???
Good luck!
USA
Asks:
I been thinking about getting involved with this guy, he's Columbian, I'm Caucasian. Is there anything you can tell me about the Columbian male disposition towards women, bad or good traits I should be aware of or look for?
Lee's Thoughts:
I have no experience with Columbian guys, but why not just spend more time with him and you can find out for yourself? Ask him about his mother or his sisters. That may give you a clue as to his "disposition towards women". You need to get to know this guy just as you would a Caucasian guy. There are princes and jerks out there and you never know which one you have until you dig a little deeper.
Just talk to him about things that are important to you and see how he responds.
Maybe some readers will be able to post their "Columbian Guy" experiences....anyone???
Good luck!
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Well, I have no personal experience with a Columbian guy, but I am a caucasian woman married to a Filipino. Who, according to other filipinos, doesn't act like a "typical" filipino. I never understood exactly what that meant...But I didn't marry his ethnicity, I married HIM.
I'm with Lee. Get to know who HE is, don't be caught up on how a "typical" Columbian/El Salvadorean/Mexican/Latino acts and how they treat women. Everybody is different. Remember, can't judge a book by it's cover--lame, but true.
I'm with Lee. Get to know who HE is, don't be caught up on how a "typical" Columbian/El Salvadorean/Mexican/Latino acts and how they treat women. Everybody is different. Remember, can't judge a book by it's cover--lame, but true.
Brittney, 15
USA
I had been going out with my boyfriend for eight months. Everything was going great. We were so in love and so happy togther. Then we had a scare that i was pregnant. I told him right away and then he told his parents. I took the test and i ended up not being pregnant. He`s the first boy i've ever slept with and i love him with all my heart. Then all of a sudden last night he told me that we should just be friends. I dont understand becuase earlier yesterday he was telling me how much he loved me and kissind me. Why do you think he would do this?
USA
I had been going out with my boyfriend for eight months. Everything was going great. We were so in love and so happy togther. Then we had a scare that i was pregnant. I told him right away and then he told his parents. I took the test and i ended up not being pregnant. He`s the first boy i've ever slept with and i love him with all my heart. Then all of a sudden last night he told me that we should just be friends. I dont understand becuase earlier yesterday he was telling me how much he loved me and kissind me. Why do you think he would do this?
He thought you were pregnant, so he was showing you that he would be there for you by kissing you and telling you how much he loved you. Now that he found out that you're really not pregnant, he's relieved. He was scared earlier, probably really frightened and now he doesn't want to receive such a shock again, so he wants to be friends. It could also be the advice of his parents, or both. Let it cool off a bit, list all the things you want in your future that doesn't include a baby and move on. Moving on is going to take a long time, so just read your list of things that you want in your future and make every attempt now to reach those goals. Don't let depression seap in for long.
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