Monday, March 20, 2006
Blowjobs
Liz, 15
Massachusetts
Asks:
How do you give a blow job? My boyfriend keeps begging me to give him one. I asked my friends and they laughed at me. I don't think they know either. I asked my mom and she said if I was old enough to give one, I would know what it is. She said, "You are to young you don't want to get pregnant at your age." Do you blow soft or hard?
Lee's Thoughts:
I'm going to set aside the issue of whether or not you should be doing this (Even though I LOVE your mom's response) and address a few other important points you brought up.
a) First, if you are not comfortable with this, tell your boyfriend to F--- OFF!! No act of sex (or love) will be enjoyable if you are being coerced into it. If you tell him that you're not into it, he will drop the subject if he has any respect for you at all.
b) I think that the *Real Mom* would agree with me that maybe we need an in-depth article on this site that illustrates and describes exactly how you CAN get pregnant. There seems to be a bit of confusion out there.
c) You can NOT get pregnant from giving a blow job (remember, sperm+egg=baby) UNLESS you give into the line... "Oh, that was so good, but you know what would be even better???". Basically, a blowjob can be sort of a "gateway" sex act that can lead to acts that will get you pregnant. So, be sure to SET YOUR BOUNDARIES and STICK TO THEM.
d) There is NO BLOWING INVOLVED in a blow job. It's more like kissing than anything. The first thing to know is that (unless you start biting...a big no-no), you probably can't do anything wrong. Guys are easy in more ways than one. Honestly, the best way to get the idea is to buy yourself a popsicle. The licking, sucking, and slurping are all very similar. Try different approaches and see which one gets the best response...hard and soft, fast and slow. Change it up. Every guy is different, so you have to find out what he likes. Sometimes it will take a little practice, but that's part of the fun.
Massachusetts
Asks:
How do you give a blow job? My boyfriend keeps begging me to give him one. I asked my friends and they laughed at me. I don't think they know either. I asked my mom and she said if I was old enough to give one, I would know what it is. She said, "You are to young you don't want to get pregnant at your age." Do you blow soft or hard?
Lee's Thoughts:
I'm going to set aside the issue of whether or not you should be doing this (Even though I LOVE your mom's response) and address a few other important points you brought up.
a) First, if you are not comfortable with this, tell your boyfriend to F--- OFF!! No act of sex (or love) will be enjoyable if you are being coerced into it. If you tell him that you're not into it, he will drop the subject if he has any respect for you at all.
b) I think that the *Real Mom* would agree with me that maybe we need an in-depth article on this site that illustrates and describes exactly how you CAN get pregnant. There seems to be a bit of confusion out there.
c) You can NOT get pregnant from giving a blow job (remember, sperm+egg=baby) UNLESS you give into the line... "Oh, that was so good, but you know what would be even better???". Basically, a blowjob can be sort of a "gateway" sex act that can lead to acts that will get you pregnant. So, be sure to SET YOUR BOUNDARIES and STICK TO THEM.
d) There is NO BLOWING INVOLVED in a blow job. It's more like kissing than anything. The first thing to know is that (unless you start biting...a big no-no), you probably can't do anything wrong. Guys are easy in more ways than one. Honestly, the best way to get the idea is to buy yourself a popsicle. The licking, sucking, and slurping are all very similar. Try different approaches and see which one gets the best response...hard and soft, fast and slow. Change it up. Every guy is different, so you have to find out what he likes. Sometimes it will take a little practice, but that's part of the fun.
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ok whoever answered this post didt help you jeez im only 13 and a blow job is when you suck a penis!!you put it in your mouth and suck suck suck slurp the end...
That was very eloquent "ANON". Thank you for your graceful addition to this forum.
I must add...any "sucking" would most likely be UNwelcome and met with a slap to the head.
I must add...any "sucking" would most likely be UNwelcome and met with a slap to the head.
w/e i didnt mean sucking.....licking and shit like that and why the hell are you telling your mom about having sex does she let you i thought you were only 15?she doesnt care if it will lead to anything else such a "vaginal sex"lol and then you get flipping pregnant oooo
o im back for my third time..i have another problem with this.
a popsicle omg nice one let me tell ya penises are orange and green.buy a weiner lol hotdog w/e u wanna cal it one of those polish sausage ones lol...im now seaching for more retarded-ness..ok its like kissing yeah too bad theresa no mouth its like making out with a giant tounge well it depends on who when were using the word giant
ok well this isnt such a problem just something i want to say
Massachucettes offical the state of prudes
jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk
dun dun da
a popsicle omg nice one let me tell ya penises are orange and green.buy a weiner lol hotdog w/e u wanna cal it one of those polish sausage ones lol...im now seaching for more retarded-ness..ok its like kissing yeah too bad theresa no mouth its like making out with a giant tounge well it depends on who when were using the word giant
ok well this isnt such a problem just something i want to say
Massachucettes offical the state of prudes
jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk jk
dun dun da
oo whoops im back again i wrote theresa up there i mean ****THERE*****
o comment back and call me a bitch and shit i dont give a...
cuz it dont mean thing...
if i dont kno ya....
im a doin my thing why your....yourself
HA HA HA HA
o comment back and call me a bitch and shit i dont give a...
cuz it dont mean thing...
if i dont kno ya....
im a doin my thing why your....yourself
HA HA HA HA
There are some girls out there who are really naive. I was one of them but I learned quick from just listening to people in the hall way at school and was actually being accused off giving blow jobs to guys, which is not true and never will be true, cause I'm not into guys at school.
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