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Tuesday, February 21, 2006
She told me she liked me but I don't feel the same way
Ryan, 17, from Canada asks: Well, the other day I was talking to this girl and she told me she liked me. She said she wanted to get to know each other, we have done that and now she wants to go out. I don't like her as much as she likes me. How do I let her know this without hurting her feelings?
VictorM's advice: Tell her that you're gay, that you're into rough, tough, cowboys.
Well, if that doesn't work for you, try the truth. Tell her you enjoy her friendship and at this point you don't see it being anything but that. No gimmicks, no speeches, no ambivalence. Tell her the truth with care.
Will that hurt her feelings? Who knows. Every person reacts differently to these things and you can't predict or control how she will react. The only thing I can tell you is if you lie or if you delay, it'll only get worse. So do it right away.
Tags: advice, dating, friend, friendship, truth
VictorM's advice: Tell her that you're gay, that you're into rough, tough, cowboys.
Well, if that doesn't work for you, try the truth. Tell her you enjoy her friendship and at this point you don't see it being anything but that. No gimmicks, no speeches, no ambivalence. Tell her the truth with care.
Will that hurt her feelings? Who knows. Every person reacts differently to these things and you can't predict or control how she will react. The only thing I can tell you is if you lie or if you delay, it'll only get worse. So do it right away.
Tags: advice, dating, friend, friendship, truth
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