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Thursday, February 23, 2006
I have a group of male friends
Ami, 22, asks: I have a group of male friends who rarely pay attention to me. I'm nice, funny, and considerate. And they compliment me on my looks quite often. But when my friend is in the room I get ignored. She is rude, inconsiderate, and uses people. What does she have that I don't? Why do I come second to her?
VictorM's advice: Think about it: she's rude. Obviously the guys don't want to fall victim to her personality, so she gets the attention. She's the squeaky wheel that gets the oil so they don't have to put up with the annoying squeak (her rotten personality). They know you're nice so they save their compliments to you for when she's not around.
Be thankful you come second when she's around. In this case, it's a good thing. As long as on the important things in life you come first. Stay nice, funny and considerate and you will be first!
Tags: advice, friends, rude, nice, ignored
VictorM's advice: Think about it: she's rude. Obviously the guys don't want to fall victim to her personality, so she gets the attention. She's the squeaky wheel that gets the oil so they don't have to put up with the annoying squeak (her rotten personality). They know you're nice so they save their compliments to you for when she's not around.
Be thankful you come second when she's around. In this case, it's a good thing. As long as on the important things in life you come first. Stay nice, funny and considerate and you will be first!
Tags: advice, friends, rude, nice, ignored
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