Amanda, 20, from Michigan asks: I want to know if this guy likes me. We go to school together at Oakland University and we live in the same dorm building. We hung out in my room once and didn't even touch. Then a week later I went and hung out in his room and watched movies. The only place to sit is on the bed. I was uncomfortable sitting against the wall so I asked him if I could lay on his lap. He let me and he put his hand on my side. Then after awhile we layed down to watch TV and I had my head on his shoulder and he was holding me. After a bit of time he kissed me. We made out for a long time. He tried to put his hand on my butt but I moved it right away. He turned the TV off and we we kissed some more then things were getting to hot so I said that I should probably go. So he's like yea I snore anyway. So he walked me out and hugged me, I kissed him. So then the day after, today, I talked to him online for like a minute then he had to go to his parents. But he didn't say anything about last night. He said he was getting ready to go to his parents so I said, OK I won't bug you anymore, have fun. And he never said anything back. He's supposed to say, no you're not bugging me, but I have to go, or something like that. So what should I do? Just wait for him to do something or should I pursue it? Because I don't want him to like me because I like him, I want him to like me because he likes me. Thanks

VictorM's advice: I have to disagree that he was suppose to say what you would expect him to say just because that's what you would have said. I can totally understand him keying in on the "OK, have fun" and totally ignoring the "I won't bug you" as purely a form of speech, especially if he was in a hurry. Don't make an issue of it because a guy's mind flies over those types of comments.

I would say don't pursue him. Let him be the one coming after you. If he likes you, he will.

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