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Friday, January 20, 2006

 

I have a crush on a guy at work

Belle, 21, from Canada, asks: Hey, I have a crush on a guy at work and at our staff party we talked a lot and danced and stuff and he drove me home. It seemed like we had a good time. I was talking to him online and he told me he had an awesome time dancing with me. He also told one of my friends at work that he though I was hot. I dunno if these are signs that he likes me or that he is just nice.

VictorM's advice: They are signs that he liked dancing with you and that he thinks you're hot. You really can't draw any more conclusions than that. There are probably many girls on the planet he thinks are hot and would be fun to dance with. So if you're asking do those signs mean he would want to date you, the answer is no. But they are a good start. You may not be the only girl on his radar screen, but you got his attention in a positive way so your chances are better than most.

Comments:
Don't assume, but go ahead and make a move. Ask him if he'd like to go do something, outside of the business setting.
 
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