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Friday, December 16, 2005
We got really intimate and did stuff
Helen, 15, from England, asks: I went out with my 17-year old boyfriend for almost a month and then we broke up. We are still really good friends and I think he still likes me but last night I went round to his house and we got really intimate and did stuff we didn't do whilst together. Why did he suddenly do this?
VictorM's advice: Because now that you're not his girlfriend you are forbidden fruit. And that, for most males, has enormous appeal (remember Adam and Eve and the apple story). Also, since you're not his girlfriend, and therefore expected to go along with making out, getting intimate with you provided a bigger challenge. That is a big motivator to males.
Now, I wouldn't draw any conclusions about his feelings for you based on this event. He may or may not care for you; that has nothing to do with the conquest last night. You were just a tempting apple and he couldn't resist taking a bite.
VictorM's advice: Because now that you're not his girlfriend you are forbidden fruit. And that, for most males, has enormous appeal (remember Adam and Eve and the apple story). Also, since you're not his girlfriend, and therefore expected to go along with making out, getting intimate with you provided a bigger challenge. That is a big motivator to males.
Now, I wouldn't draw any conclusions about his feelings for you based on this event. He may or may not care for you; that has nothing to do with the conquest last night. You were just a tempting apple and he couldn't resist taking a bite.
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