Warren, 32, from Indiana asks:
My wife and I have two kids, the youngest of which is only in diapers. Before we got married, she said she wanted to stay at home and raise kids. But now, she all of a sudden wants to go out and work. I don't know what is going on here. Who's going to take care of the kids? What should I do and why did she suddenly change her mind?

Answer: Didn’t you get the memo? Women can (and will) change their minds! But here’s the real deal. How many days have YOU spend with the kids? Alone. ALL DAY. It can drive a normally sane person out of their mind. Trust me Warren. Maybe your wife just needs some extra time to herself while you watch the kids. A couple of hours to meet the girls for a drink. That might help keep her sanity so that she can deal with being with the kids all day, every day. Or maybe she really just wants to go back to work. Some women just aren’t happy staying home and there’s nothing wrong with that. So she goes back to work. Enroll the kids in daycare, find a nanny, call grandma……or there is a radical new concept called the Stay-at-Home-Dad.