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Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Sex after one month. Will he lose respect?
cheshire gal, 15, from cheshire, asks: I have been seeing a guy for about a month and last night we got *intermate* didn't sleep together but now I'm scared that he will think I'm easy and will have lost his respect for me as we have only been seeing each other for about a month. Will he have lost respect for me and how long should i leave it before i talk to him? thank you.
VictorM's advice: I'm going to assume you meant *intimate but we didn't sleep together*, unless "intermate" is a term I never heard of.
I can't tell what his values are but if you felt that after one month it was time, that's your value system. And if he loses respect for you, well, then your value systems aren't a match. I doubt you'd be together very long in that case. But he may be happy about what happened, so don't assume the worst.
You should talk to him right away. And don't be on the defensive when you do. If he had reservations about what you two did shame on him for allowing it to happen. He's as responsible as you are.
But you ought to at least know more about your partner before you do stuff that makes you worry. Think about that before you get *intermate" again.
VictorM's advice: I'm going to assume you meant *intimate but we didn't sleep together*, unless "intermate" is a term I never heard of.
I can't tell what his values are but if you felt that after one month it was time, that's your value system. And if he loses respect for you, well, then your value systems aren't a match. I doubt you'd be together very long in that case. But he may be happy about what happened, so don't assume the worst.
You should talk to him right away. And don't be on the defensive when you do. If he had reservations about what you two did shame on him for allowing it to happen. He's as responsible as you are.
But you ought to at least know more about your partner before you do stuff that makes you worry. Think about that before you get *intermate" again.
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No, now he's celebrating with his buddies cause he was the first to figure out that you're easy. In other words, he thinks you're a slut and plans to bone you soon.
Keep your pants on, little girl.
Keep your pants on, little girl.
Did you not know Vic? "Intermate" is the new slang word us kids use these days! It means, "I was fooling around with some guy that I hardly know and I, myself, think I am acting like a slut but wanted to know if my guy saw that too."
A month is a little soon if I do say so myself. Unless you knew eachother beforehand, which I am not sure of. Either way I say hold out so you know you won't regret things later.
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A month is a little soon if I do say so myself. Unless you knew eachother beforehand, which I am not sure of. Either way I say hold out so you know you won't regret things later.
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