Thursday, December 22, 2005
Long distance love...
Travis, 27 from Maine asks:
I am in a long distance relationship. She is in another country. We used to talk about sex on the phone. Now when I mention it, she changes the subject. She is always talking about this or that guy that she is going drinking with. What is happening?
Emilie’s Advice:
Long distance relationships can work, but yours does not sound like it will. It’s NEVER a good sign when a girl stops talking to you about sex and starts talking about other guys. It sounds like she’s moved on and is trying to give you not-so-subtle hints. Take them. She’s done with you but isn’t willing to actually break it off. Do yourselves both a favor and end it. If you’re hesitant to break up with your overseas girl, ask yourself what you’re actually getting out of the relationship. It doesn’t sound like there would be much to salvage. I’m sure you can find a great woman who actually lives close enough to see on a regular basis.
