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Friday, December 23, 2005
Invitation to Christmas eve
confused, 25, from NJ, asks: Ok, so the holidays are in 2 days and I asked my boyfriend to attend 2 family functions of mine, one being Christmas eve. He would like to see his cousin and his family on that day also which is fine but it seems like he didn't have any intention of inviting me. So, I basically invited myself. But he says that I should know that I am invited. How am I supposed to know if he doesn't invite me? Now I don't want him to come to my family functions because of this. What should I do?
VictorM's advice: Oh come on, stop acting like a baby. Yeah, he should have made it clear you're invited but your method of retaliation is childish at best. Don't cave in to that negative reaction.
I agree that he should have specifically invited you but unless you have doubts that he's sincere about wanting you there, consider this a small faux pas and be glad that you'll be with him and his family and glad that he'll be with you and your family. And have a Merry Christmas together.
VictorM's advice: Oh come on, stop acting like a baby. Yeah, he should have made it clear you're invited but your method of retaliation is childish at best. Don't cave in to that negative reaction.
I agree that he should have specifically invited you but unless you have doubts that he's sincere about wanting you there, consider this a small faux pas and be glad that you'll be with him and his family and glad that he'll be with you and your family. And have a Merry Christmas together.
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