Saturday, December 24, 2005
I love her but....
Adam, 22 from Knoxville asks:
I have been in a relationship for a year and I loved this girl to pieces. She is my life. We are getting married next year but I have a problem. Her sexual history haunts me sometimes. I would do anything for her! But her past really gets to me! How can I deal with this? Help me please because I don’t want to lose her.
Emilie’s Advice:
If you would do anything for her, can’t you cut her some slack? Everyone’s got a history (sexual or otherwise). My guess is that she was the first person you’ve slept with. You can’t blame HER that you were a virgin until you met her. Even if you broke up with her because of your insecurities, you’d only end up dating someone else who could have an even more risqué past. And then you’d be a hypocrite because people dating you would have to deal with your past as well. So, my advice is to just deal with it. You may not have been her first, but she chose you to be her last.
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postpone the wedding...you have too much on your mind to make a commitment....then seek someone who you can talk to and get this problem of yours hashed out.
Adam - I, too, have a fiance' and she, too, has a sexual past that just cannot be hidden since she has three children from two different marriages.
Butyour posting comes down to this, ..."her past really gets to me! How can I deal with this? Help me please because I don’t want to lose her."
The only thing that can help you deal with this is the answer to this question: what has her sexual history been sice the two of you have been in your current relationship?
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Butyour posting comes down to this, ..."her past really gets to me! How can I deal with this? Help me please because I don’t want to lose her."
The only thing that can help you deal with this is the answer to this question: what has her sexual history been sice the two of you have been in your current relationship?
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