Gary, 27 from California asks:

I work with this woman about my age. Our salaries are probably about the same. She is the sharpest dresser. Everyday she's dressed great. Many of the other women dress very nicely as well. On the other hand, most guys we work with, including me, just don't seem to dress that nicely. Even small things, like shoes are nicer. This woman's shoes are always so neat with no scuff marks. Not us guys. I could dress better but my budget doesn't allow it. So, how is it that women in the same income level as guys can look sharper, neater, more stylish? How can they afford it?

Emilie’s Advice:

Well, for one thing, she might take better care of her things because she WANTS to look sharp. I tend to buy clothes on sale to get more for my money. You can create a great wardrobe with just a few key items you can mix and match. And sometimes clothes do make the person. Have you ever considered that this woman might make more than you think she does BECAUSE she dresses nicely? It’s a fact that appearance makes a difference in your boss’s perception of your performance. Maybe if you bought some nice clothes, you’d get a raise and be able to afford even nicer clothes!