Friday, December 23, 2005
Dating woes
James, 48 from Fort Worth, Texas asks:
I met a woman who is 56. I liked her at first, but she seems controlling. I made the mistake of sleeping with her once. She told me that she had thought about asking her girlfriend to make a pass at me, just to see if I would take the bait. This scares me. I'm recently divorced. I like my independence. How can I break it off?
Emilie’s Advice:
Just tell her you’re not interested. She sounds a bit loony. Red flags should have started to wave frantically when she actually TOLD you she wanted to get her friend to hit on you. That’s the behavior of someone who is extremely insecure with a very low self esteem. If telling her it’s over doesn’t work, get a restraining order.
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James - You wrote, "I made the mistake of sleeping with her once...I'm recently divorced. I like my independence. How can I break it off?"
"(Her Name), I have found someone new. She is closer to my age and her interests and we have more of the same interests than you and I do. I won't be able to put the energy you need me to put into our relationship anymore. I hope you find the man you deserve."
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"(Her Name), I have found someone new. She is closer to my age and her interests and we have more of the same interests than you and I do. I won't be able to put the energy you need me to put into our relationship anymore. I hope you find the man you deserve."
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