Monday, December 26, 2005
Cheat on her boyfriend?
Katie, 19 from Canada asks:
I have been going out with this guy named Brian for a long time but now I kind of like my friend Jim. After I pulled a prank by telling him I loved him he said it back! Now I think I really do like him! I haven’t seen Brian for about a week and I see or talk to Jim everyday! Did I mention Jim is going out with my best friend Alyssa? Brian will break up with me and Alyssa will get mad if this goes any further but I secretly REALLY want to be with Jim. Jim is a cheating liar but I can’t seem to get over him. Help!! Should I pick BRIAN or JIM?!?
Emilie’s Advice:
Um, neither. Your intentions are very immature and selfish. If you feel the desire to cheat on Brian, you shouldn’t be with him. You called Jim a cheating liar, so I can’t quite figure out why you’d want to be with him either. And you want to steal your best friend’s boyfriend? That’s nice, very friendly. My advice is to break up with Brian because you are obviously not that into him. Stay away from Jim, he’s got a girlfriend (your best friend, remember her?) and honestly, he sounds like a looser anyway. Your actions will have consequences that will affect other people. Don’t be foolish and ruin a friendship over this.
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I don't believe for a second that you're 19 years old. If you are, you need to stop acting like a fucking 12 year old. I don't even know how you can get a boyfriend! Or maybe he's still in middle school. You need to be punched in the face.
I'm 14 and I've been dating this guy, Andrew. I've said that I love him and he's said it back to me. I really do love him. Is it right that I'm in love at such a young age?
I can't tell you if you really are in love or not, but if you are, more props to you. However, you are young, so don't put all faith and love into the relationship until you're older. Personally, I thought I was in love at 14. For the most part I was right, but it was a different kind of love... a love for a person that means a lot to me, not romantic. Good luck with that.
Katie - Let's pretend for a moment that you have a close friend named Sue. Sue comes to you with the same problem, just different guys. What advice would you give her?
A) get into that relationship with the man you know to be a liar and acheat even tho' he's in a relationship with your best friend right now.
OR
B) Try to work things out between you and your current boyfriend.
It's time you take your own advice.
A) get into that relationship with the man you know to be a liar and acheat even tho' he's in a relationship with your best friend right now.
OR
B) Try to work things out between you and your current boyfriend.
It's time you take your own advice.
Kahea - You asked, "Is it right that I'm in love at such a young age?"
If you need to ask, then you should examine the possibility that you are not in love with him.
That said, love knows no boundaries includung age. However, time matures love in all people of all ages. Respect yourself and each other and do the things that will keep that respect alive and growing.
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If you need to ask, then you should examine the possibility that you are not in love with him.
That said, love knows no boundaries includung age. However, time matures love in all people of all ages. Respect yourself and each other and do the things that will keep that respect alive and growing.
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